Final being the KEY word.

Final orders. Did he not understand? When you go to court, the JUDGE makes FINAL orders.

Final meaning that's it, no going back, it's all over smokey. He's the federal Judge what he says goes! It doesn't matter that you the lowley husband who took me to court don't like his decision, since you took it to the realm of the courts to decide - HE GETS THE LAST SAY!!!! There is no more negotiating, if he says we're allowed to return to the USA with or without you, he means it. So we will go. You can play all the games you want, you bugger, but that is all they are is games. And in three weeks, the babies and I will get on a plane and leave and return and make a new home an ocean away.